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Dad sends his 'friends' viral text after his son with Autism wasn't invited to any parties

"He's not an afterthought, he's my every thought"

Dad sends his 'friends' viral text after his son with Autism wasn't invited to any parties

"He's not an afterthought, he's my every thought"

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Dad sends his 'friends' viral text after his son with Autism wasn't invited to any parties

"He's not an afterthought, he's my every thought"

Parenting a child with autism presents its own unique challenges, but what makes one family's most recent struggle all the more heartbreaking is that it was completely avoidable. Mom Christine Stephenson shared her husband's text to his friends after they ostracized his autistic son, and the strongly-worded message quickly went viral. Disclaimer: his message contains profanity. Reilly Stephenson is 6-years-old and "pretty much nonverbal," Christine says, and this weekend was "just the straw that broke the camel's back." Her husband Shane had watched his "so-called" friends repeatedly exclude his child from their kids' parties, and he couldn't take it anymore.Shane's anger, hurt and disappointment definitely struck a nerve on Twitter, as over 2,000 people shared his message and hundreds more replied with similar experiences. Many even offered to invite Reilly over to their own homes. Christine, who regularly blogs about their family on The Life of Reilly, says they've since heard from friends who are "mortified" about their actions, even though Shane insisted he didn't want any invites out of pity. "In the future, don't bother," he texted. " He's not an afterthought."Unfortunately, this isn't the first or last time the Stephensons will experience a moment like this. Christine says that "inclusion is a huge problem for autistic people. "Don't assume we don't want to go somewhere because it's difficult," she told CafeMom. "Reilly may not speak, but he listens and he understands. As he grows I genuinely fear for the effects this may have on his mental health."While their viral moment prompted an outpouring of support, the Stephensons hope that other families will also learn to put their preconceptions aside going forward. "Parents know how their children will be in certain surroundings and there is no one better placed to call it," Christine says. "They may decline your invitation but I can guarantee it will be declined with grateful thanks that they were thought of."(h/t Popsugar)

presents its own , but what makes one family's most recent struggle all the more heartbreaking is that it was completely avoidable. Mom Christine Stephenson shared her husband's text to his friends after they ostracized his autistic son, and the quickly went viral. Disclaimer: his message contains profanity.

Reilly Stephenson is and "pretty much nonverbal," Christine says, and this weekend was "just the straw that broke the camel's back." Her husband Shane had watched his "so-called" friends repeatedly exclude his child from their kids' parties, and he couldn't take it anymore.

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Shane's anger, hurt and disappointment definitely struck a nerve on Twitter, as over 2,000 people shared his message and hundreds more replied with similar experiences. Many even offered to invite Reilly over to their own homes.

Christine, who regularly blogs about their family on , says they've since heard from friends who are "mortified" about their actions, even though he didn't want any invites out of pity. "In the future, don't bother," he texted. " He's not an afterthought."

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Unfortunately, this isn't the first or last time the Stephensons will experience a moment like this. Christine says that "inclusion is a huge problem for autistic people. "Don't assume we don't want to go somewhere because it's difficult," she told . "Reilly may not speak, but he listens and he understands. As he grows I genuinely fear for the effects this may have on his mental health."

While their viral moment prompted an outpouring of support, the hope that other families will also learn to put their preconceptions aside going forward. "Parents know how their children will be in certain surroundings and there is no one better placed to call it," Christine says. "They may decline your invitation but I can guarantee it will be declined with grateful thanks that they were thought of."

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