Mother, trans daughter planning to move before new legislation takes effect in their state
AJ Sheets, 11, came out to her mother Shirley Taylor as transgender on April 9.
That was just five days after a bill was passed in AJ's home state of Arkansas.
Now, as she finishes her final week of fifth grade, AJ and her mother are looking to start fresh in a place they hope will be more welcoming.
"I hate to say I've lost a little bit of faith in Arkansas, but I have," Taylor said. "I've grown up here most of my life and she's been here all her life. But I've just seen so much hate and so much negativity from immediate people surrounding us, and there's just not a lot of support here."
The decision for AJ and her mother to leave Arkansas did not come lightly. At first, Taylor didn't accept AJ as transgender until AJ tried on a dress that a family friend had brought over.
"It was a yellow dress with purple flowers," AJ explained. "And when I put it on, I was twirling dancing and I was so happy. And that's when my mom finally said okay, I guess I'll start accepting it."
"Whenever I saw her come in, she was just beaming," Taylor added. "I mean she was grinning ear from ear. She had her little skirt out and she was twirling around, and it just hit me. I was like, 'why have I been denying this for so long?' I think mostly because I was just scared of what it would mean."
AJ's coming out coincided with the state passing laws that allow doctors to object to treatment based on personal beliefs, as well as the banning of gender-affirming treatments for minors. Taylor said they plan to move to Olympia, Washington, before school starts so AJ can start to fully explore her transition before puberty.
The ACLU told sister station 40/29 온라인 바카라 게임 they plan to file legal action against the bills that target the transgender community. Taylor said the idea that the laws could be stopped from going into effect does not change their decision to move.
"I really want her to be some more supportive and somewhere. That's not a toxic environment. And right now the change is just too slow for us, for it to change our minds."
AJ and her mom said the best way the Northwest Arkansas community can support them is to be an ally to the trans community with something as simple as acknowledging a person's pronoun preference.
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